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Fifty Shades of Abuse Romanticized
Yeah, at it’s core, Fifty Shades of Gray has a very strong vein of pure abuse running right through it. And I’ve been trying really hard to ignore that. I’ve been meaning to write this post for a...
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Rape Accusations – Real or False?
In the past year or so, we’ve seen an explosion of discussions on both Fetlife and in the blogosphere about the problem of rape and abuse in the BDSM community, many of which I’ve commented on and...
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Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay?
Is your partner too good to leave in some way, but also too bad to stay with? Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay by Mira Kirschenbaum can help you make this decision with clarity, and find peace of...
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How to Know If You’re In a Toxic Relationship
From Dr. Taku on RelationshipSurgery.com: This article is for those who can’t really seem to get it down that something is very off about their relationship… Are you losing yourself to an odd, and...
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Invitation to Participate in a “Needs Assessment Survey on Intimate Partner...
All interested individuals who are involved in BDSM/Leather/Kink lifestyles are invited to participate in a survey about intimate partner abuse. The purpose of this survey is to gather information...
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Why the Reasons for Consent Violations Matter, and What We Should Do About Them
A post I just made the other day on a thread about whether or not a particular top should be banned for consent violations, and how long that should last. The reason that a person violates consent...
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Consent! A study of consent violations in the Dutch speaking scene
This summary of the referenced and linked-to study of consent violations in the Dutch-speaking scene in Holland are by Guilty, reposted by permission. ======================================= ** Voor...
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Dominant vs Domineering – Relationship Red Flag List
A while back, I found a great post on Fetlife by Twysted about red flags and dating tips for kinky people, and reposted it here on my blog with his/her permission. Fast forward a few years, and I got...
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Subscribers, Please Resubscribe
Due to a massive influx of spam registrations here on the blog, I had to do a major purge of subscribers the other day. I did my best to avoid deleting those of you who are real, legitimate...
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Mover Helps Abused Women
I’ve just come across a terrific resource for abused women who want to leave their relationships but need help with the actual move: a moving company that will actually move you for free! Aaron and...
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